HOW CAN WE GIVE OUR QUIETER STUDENTS A VOICE?
I recently used the Placemat Strategy during a teacher workshop.
At the end of the session, one of the teachers came up to me and said that she had really liked the activity because it gave everyone a voice.
She explained that she is a little bit of an introvert, and that having the opportunity to write down her ideas first meant that she could organise her thoughts before sharing them with the group.
Her comment really stayed with me.
It made me think about how often we ask students to contribute by putting their hands up or speaking immediately, and how many students might have valuable ideas but simply need a little more thinking time or a different way into the conversation. It also made me think about the importance of creating different ways for students to participate.
Here are three strategies I have been using for some time:


Looking back on moments with children, where I felt a big shfit, were the ones where I slowed down... Can slowing, giving time for a greeting, a deep breath and some gentleness before diving into the next thing be considered differentialtion?
THE little boy, THE one who had been struggling to be a part of the group, took my hand (I'm a substitute teacher who had never met this boy!). After the breathing and stretching exercise at the end of recess, outdoors, we moved away as a group, calm and cool, and as he grasped my hand, connected. Melt my heart.
So given this case, pausing after recess, I'm going to say 'yes' :). Young boys can't regulate themselves as quickly and independently as girls, yet. It will come! But when in a school setting, and regulation is needed, we can help give them space, time and tools.
And just maybe sometimes our children are seeking to connect?
This is where I noticed a big 'aha'. Doing a regulate before we educate exercise outdoors, with 6-7 year olds after recess, showed me that our students really need and apprecite this moment for gentleness and connection. Switching from one adult leader / teacher / supervisor to the next and one activity to the next.
THE boy, THE one who so often was on the fringes of the class, felt a part of the whole, felt connected. From that moment on, his engagement in the learning task was spot on.
He needed a different kind of transition. Slow, intentional, soft, connected.